Out of control spending, even if the lady has a sizable income, is a big spankable offense, mainly because this behavior tends to be repeated over and over, if not addressed. This behavior goes hand in hand with skewed spending priorities and poor budgeting and can require monitoring and sound spankings to keep her on track.
Instigating, whether it is instigating conflict, or trouble is a spankable offense that warrants an especially creative punishment. That is because there is usually specific intent behind the instigation, and, therefore, an instigator needs to be taught the lesson that her intended outcome is not worth the spanking and accompanying punishments she will receive for her efforts!
You have probably heard the saying – If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again. Well, there is wisdom behind that saying.
Don’t become discouraged by initial failures. Instead, learn from them and use that knowledge to lay the foundation for future success. You may have to try more than once, or twice, but working to achieve your goal, and not giving up, is well worth the effort!
It has been awhile since I last posted, but one thing I am finding as I get older is that quite a few of the women my age, 50+, are taking their cues from the younger women rather than the other way around. So, I can say that being over 50 is definitely not too old for a misbehaving lady to get a good spanking!
One corrective measure I have found to be very effective when a lady has been particularly naughty is to require her to sit down after her spanking, while she is still contrite with a sore bottom, and have her write out what she has learned from her spanking. The process of sitting and thinking while shifting her sore bottom in the chair produces much better behavior afterwards!
Skewed priorities is a behavior that I have encountered often recently. An example is when a young lady can regularly be on time for personal appointments like getting her hair and nails done, but is consistently late for work and other professional appointments. That is a behavior that is sure to earn the young lady a sound bottom warming, so that when she sits down at work the morning after her spanking, her sore bottom will provide her an incentive to rethink her priorities in the future!
Indulging in manipulative behavior is a sure way to earn a spanking from me, as I don’t always address it when I first become aware of it. I like to observe the young lady over time and see how deep this behavior goes, and, by the time I bring it up – usually by surprise, there are no excuses, or talking her way out of the spanking she has coming.